Welcome Home

Where are you on the way home?

Eight stops from before you say yes to feeling at home. Every pet moves at their own pace, so use it as a guide, not a clock.

Who's coming home?Both? Mixed company in your future?
Type your pet's name: it stays in your browser, and we never see it.
Stop 0: for the grown-ups

Before You Say Yes

Before pickup day, settle five things on paper: a vet, a budget, who does what, a helper you can call, and time off for the first days. Write a name beside every job, including who scoops the litter box.

Armando: Do come in. Five matters to settle before the guest arrives: a vet, a budget, who does what, a helper, and time off. I have put them on one list. It is rather tidy, if I say so myself.
Did you know?

In one study, about two in three cats treated their person as a safe base, the same share as human infants.

Where this fact comes from

For the kids: your job

Help write who does which job, and stick the list on the fridge.

Questions families ask

Each answer starts with the short version, then the steps, a corner for the kids, and where it comes from.

Cats

  • The first days with a new cat: setting up the safe roomRead it
  • Our new cat has been under the bed for two days. Is that normal?Read it
  • How long should a new cat stay in one room?Read it
  • How many litter boxes does a cat need?Read it
  • How do I introduce a new cat to our cat or dog?Read it
  • How do I read my cat's tail, ears and slow blink?Read it
  • Kids and the new cat: calm, safe, togetherRead it
  • Kitten, grown cat or breeder?Read it
  • One cat or two?Read it

Dogs

  • The first three days with a new dogRead it
  • How long does a rescue dog take to settle? (and what 3-3-3 really means)Read it
  • The first night with a new dog or puppyRead it
  • Introducing a new dog to the dog or cat you already haveRead it
  • How to read your dog, and tell if a dog wants to be pettedRead it
  • Kids and the new dog: safe, happy, togetherRead it
  • Puppy, grown dog or breeder?Read it

For grown-ups: Mixed Company. Homes with a cat and a dog, and people switching sides.

Inside the book

In the works

Our Welcome Home picture book

Something quiet is coming to our house.Something big is coming to our house.Something is coming to our house.

A read-aloud picture book in a cat edition and a dog edition. Every spread pairs a short story to read aloud with a corner for the grown-ups, and your pet's name runs all the way through. More about the book

Later

Books that look like your own pet

Every Welcome Home book already carries your pet's name. Pictures that look like your own pet come later. Read more

Free to print, with your pet's name

Three favorites here. See all the printables, from the five decisions to the pet-proofing checklist.

Before you say yes

Five decisions on one page: a vet, a budget, who does what, a helper, and time off. Fill it in at the kitchen table before pickup day.

Your Welcome Home Map

Eight stops on one page, with your pet's name at the top. Stick it on the fridge.

Milestones in your calendar

Three gentle reminders, at three days, three weeks and three months, each with a line about that stop. They go into your own calendar, and we never see them.

Saves one calendar file. Nothing is sent to us.

For shelters and rescues
Free printable Welcome Home Maps for cats and dogs, for your go-home folders.
Read about it